tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11758224.post116141211022653034..comments2023-09-28T07:23:51.376-07:00Comments on ProjectPerko: A Guide to OffenseCraig Perkohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13173752470581218239noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11758224.post-9648340850321249852012-07-02T18:04:55.706-07:002012-07-02T18:04:55.706-07:00One problem is that people take an attack on an ac...One problem is that people take an attack on an action/behavior to be an attack on them personally. For example, criticizing a New Zealander for making rude jokes about Australians, or vice versa, is not an attack on them personally, but criticism of a cultural practice.<br /><br />Likewise, take more controversial topics - things such as abortion. Some people see attacks against abortion as being attacks against women. When in fact a behavior is what is being attacked, not a person. I think this important distinction is all too often lost.<br /><br />What you do is not who you are.Ambient Malicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04959377284975359699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11758224.post-65063997007460261162012-07-02T12:15:48.471-07:002012-07-02T12:15:48.471-07:00The best response to 8 I've ever heard boils d...The best response to 8 I've ever heard boils down to "That may be the case, and you might have a valid thing to talk about, but that's not the issue here. Let's deal with the issue and then go talk about your thing."Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07676886172700876248noreply@blogger.com